Friday, March 31, 2006

More List-isty Goodness

I wasn't officially tagged, but I purloined this from Shrew:

accent - I have a single word accent. From my time spent in North Carolina, I don't get "tired", I get "tarred". Don't know why. Other than that, I've had people tell me they can't tell where I'm from because I have no accent whatsoever.
booze of choice - bailey's irish creme
chore i hate - cleaning the kitchen/livingroom
dog or cat - 1 dog, 3 cats
essential electronics - my computer, of course!
favorite perfume/cologne - I like Nautica, although deodorants are becoming so perfumy nowadays, who even needs colognes?
gold or silver - I don't wear jewelry, but I am a little partial to silver.
hometown - brentwood, new york
insomnia - depends on how you define insomnia...
job title - O2 to CO2 converter
kids - ha!
living arrangment - here and there.
most admired trait - in others? Honesty, sense of humor, intelligence (but not snobbiness)
number of sexual partners - nada, zip, zero, zilch.
overnight hospital stays - More (since january 2005) than I'd care for...
phobia - dying
quote - my all time favorite/most often used quote: "huh?"
religion - christian
siblings - one older sister
time i wake up - whenever
unusual talent/skill - I'm multilingually illiterate. I can't read in several languages :Þ
vegetable i refuse to eat - cauliflower. Yuk!
worst habit - I'm a bit of a recluse
x-rays - Chest mostly
yummy foods i make - Chili, various egg dishes, and a few personal recipes :)
zodiac sign - gemini

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Something ain't quite right...

So I had some salmon (I mush it up good, add some mayo, horseradish, and honey mustard, because I can't eat dry meat, and it could still use a little flavor). Then I had some applesauce, some with "country berries", some with strawberries (these are Motts little snack cups). But for some reason, the taste in my mouth right now is that of black olives.

What the...?!

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Forgotten Love?

I'm usually not "philosophical" (I'm either goofy, or analytical), but I was chatting with a friend tonight, and it got me thinking about something...

Can one "forget" what it's like to love, or be in love (to be more specific)? I mean, obviously I love my family, and my friends, so love isn't a foreign concept to me. There was a time when I was deeply *in love*, so I'm no stranger to that state of being either.

I do have a lot of female friends, and I do have a lot of fun with them (mostly chatting), and yes, some of them are quite attractive. I do find myself feeling protective of them sometimes (that's always been my thing), but I sometimes wonder if I'll ever truly be in love again, or if I already *have*, but somehow 'glossed over it'.

See, I've gotten into a different mindset (in recent years) with regards to "love". I'm definetly all for it, but I don't feel... I guess "worthy" is the most appropriate thing here. That's not to say I don't have anything to offer, but there are also things about me that I feel a potential mate shouldn't have to deal with. Like my recent health issues. But I wonder if I am keeping people at a distance, either due to my own feelings of inadequacy, or in trying to be so *certain* that it's love, that I'm actually circumventing the process?

It's not that I have anybody specific in mind, I care about all of my friends, and yes, many of them qualify as "potential spouses", I just wonder if I'm short changing myself... Something for all the singles who read my blog to ponder :)

And to all, good luck with your own love experiences!

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

I Wonder...

The most popular egg dish is scrambled eggs. Did you ever stop to consider how many of those scrambled egg dishes started out as an omelette or sunny side up eggs gone bad?

Monday, March 06, 2006

Paid Spamertisements? (a legit discussion)

Spam Blockers and AOL's new plans...

I found this article rather interesting. I will agree that it seems some spamblockers are a little too agressive (yet they still tend to let too much spam through). But most services have a "junk" folder that allows you to check out the email they've marked as spam. I advise always going through the folder for at least a week whenever you set up a new account of any kind, that utilizes such a service (like gmail, hotmail, or mozilla's thunderbird email program), as it will inevitably peg some of your legit email as spam.

AOL's new plan, however, is to begin *charging* legitimate mass emailers a fee to allow the emails to pass. This has it's pros and cons. I'd like to address a few:
PRO:

  • Virus wielding, illegitimate spammers will not pay for such services. In fact, one of the reasons why the computers have viruses is because they are built *solely* to spam. A simple mass emailer, a long list of emails, and the spam is installed, the comp is given an internet connection, and left alone for weeks (or more), so when they do get hacked, or a virus, the owner doesn't give a rat's behind.

  • Foreign email spammers, even if they are legit, likely won't pay for such services. I don't know about you, but I recieve a TON of Korean spam (and occassionally chinese spam). Mostly for online stores. They seem legit, but obviously there's no way I'm buying from them.

CON:

  • Mass emailers that commonly get pegged for spam but aren't (like yahoogroups, and other legit mailing lists), are going to have an even harder time getting through. Why? Because these lists are usually free. Why would they continue to be free if AOL is going to charge them?

  • AOL is controlling what they define as "Spam". Not you. Like the aforementioned emails that often get pegged for spam but aren't, that you normally have to white list, or mark as "not spam", now AOL is planning to play Border Patrol and stop them before you even get the chance to mark them 'legit'.



Obviously those are very brief lists, but I'd like to mention some of the repercussions as well:
Many mailing lists are going to specifically NOT allow you to sign up with AOL email addresses. Considering how the majority of online identities out there are AOL, this is going to alienate a lot of people (at least, the less computer litterate ones who don't know/trust well enough to sign up for an alternative free email account). Eventually however, this may severely hurt these services, when they realize just how big a populace the AOL community is, thus either making them decide to allow AOL emails, but start charging for the currently free services, or decide it's not worth it to continue the service altogether.
The other big repercussion is the control of content. I'm all for more agressive spam control, but the problem (and this is the big problem with product activation, like Adobe and Microsoft), is that these systems, the obviously "easier to implement" solutions, tend to victimize the *legitimate* parties, rather than make the spammers/pirates pay for their misdeeds. Since AOL has to approve what is or isn't spam ANYWAY for this program, why not identify the legitimate entities, allow them through, for free, and identify the real spammers and *locate them*, and make *them* pay, the situation would be not only more tolerable, but praiseworthy.
The FBI goes after hackers, and software pirates with applomb, but obviously doesn't go after the spammers with nearly the same tenacity (for several reasons, one they can't really recoup much monetary cost, so there's no financial reason for the FBI, or AOL to go after them too hard, plus legally, there's still a fine line between solicited and unsolicited. How many emails have you gotten that said "you're receiving this because you signed up with..." even though you haven't, but the fact that they have your address they can say you did if ever taken to court over it. OR, the ones that quote some government statute/docket number as the reason why the email isn't spam (for the record, it's a lie, the statute commonly sited was shot down in congress years ago, and there hasn't been any such proposal since).

Basically, spammers are not financially viable targets to go after (for the big companies/FBI), and victimizing legitimate mass emailers is not the way to go. Although, if AOL was dedicating any fees they got from legit emailers towards locating and stopping spammers, I (and many others) wouldn't have such a problem with this issue.

Let me know your thoughts, feedback, peanut butter cookie recipes, etc. ;Þ

Oscar Notes (the very brief version)

I got 10 out of 25 right. But of course, the two biggest upsets of the night were Reese Witherspoon for Best Actress, and Crash, coming out of nowhere to win best picture.